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Thursday, March 28, 2013
Tribute to my Wife
It is my wife, Ondrea's birthday tomorrow, and I want to say a few things in her honor.
Ondrea is the most faithful, dedicated, devoted, loving, and beautiful wife I have ever known. Ondrea has been like a rock to me during the many times when I have struggled and been up and down. Her unconditional, unfailing love has been a beautiful picture to me of the love of God and his heart for me. I am so thankful for all the times where she demonstrated love to me when I didn't deserve it. I know I have been a clod at times, and she knows me better than anyone else, yet still loves me.
Ondrea's wisdom and insight into the heart of matters is amazing. I can't count the number of times where her encouragement and Godly wisdom has lifted me out of wrong, negative, ungodly thinking. Her prophetic insight from the heart of God helps clear up my cloudiness. I don't even want to think where I would be right now if not for my wife. It is amazing to see how God put us together because we complement each other so perfectly!
Ondrea's example of one who wholeheartedly loves to do God's will and obey him has been a tremendous inspiration to me. She has a strong desire to listen to God's voice and be obedient no matter what. And, she does it because she loves God so much, not out of obligation.
Her commitment and love for our children also amazes me. It's not easy training, teaching, and taking care of 6 children. It takes a lot of energy, time, and love to make a Godly home. Great children don't just happen by accident.
Happy Birthday, Ondrea!! May greater blessings, health, love, and fulfillment be yours this year!
Wednesday, January 9, 2013
Dangerous children
As I was praying for my children today, I was reminded of why we are doing this parenting thing. Why did God want us to have six children? What purpose other than to do our part in fulfilling the mandate to be fruitful and multiply does God have in mind for our children? I want more for them than to just land a decent job, have a nice family, afford a house and car, be good citizens, have enough money, be tithers, go to church(tongue in cheek), and be hard workers. Although some of those can be good things, I want them to be a Godly seed who seek first the Kingdom of God.
Several things came to my mind that I really desire for my children from a Kingdom perspective. I know these are also the things their heavenly Father desires for them.
- Be passionate for God, radical lovers of Jesus, worshiping him in Spirit and truth.
- Be more than once-a-week Christians, I want them to love and worship God with their entire lives.
- Discover and walk in their God-given purpose, talents, abilities, and spiritual gifts.
- Be full of the Holy Spirit and power.
- Not just know by faith that God is present, but also regularly sense God's inner presence and peace in their spirits.
- Know and experience the immeasurable love the Father has towards them. I want them to know his smile and sense his blessing upon their lives.
- Know that their Heavenly Father is not distant, but he is close to them and cares about them deeply.
- By God's Grace, be wholeheartedly committed to remaining morally pure until they get married to the spouse God has in mind for them (if he wants them to get married)
- Listen to the voice of God and be led by the Holy Spirit, even in the details of life.
- Regularly experience the joy and freedom that comes from the Holy Spirit.
- Commune with God in prayer on a regular basis, not out of discipline or habit, but because they love to spend time with the Father.
- Give of their time, talents, gifts, and finances for the building of God's kingdom, not to build an earthly kingdom and build up earthly riches.
- Love their own children and all people with God's love.
- Deal ruthlessly with any sin issues or idolatry in their life so they remain pure and unstained, maintaining a clean conscience.
- Live a life of non-compromise with the World, or the world's way of doing things(Church, money, entertainment, appearance, music), but not in a legalistic sense. I desire them to do what is right and holy with a heart of love for God and others.
- Rather than living in fear of the enemy and his lies, I want them to strike fear in the heart of the enemy. I want them to be courageous and bold, not backing down in the face of opposition.
- I want them to be free to confront the status quo and speak their minds in freedom and truth.
- I desire them to be truthful, honest, and humble. Able to be real in their relationships with others and with God.
Friday, December 14, 2012
The Year in Review
Holiday greetings to all of our friends and family~
This year has been a busy and interesting year for our family, so we would like to share some highlights with you. We hope this letter finds you thankful, contented, and blessed.
Our family has much to be thankful for this Christmas. We started out this year by taking a trip to Florida in February. We celebrated Liliahna’s birthday with Winnie the Pooh and Friends on Feb. 4th. We visited Disney World, Epcot, Sea World, Animal Kingdom, St. Augustine(oldest city in the US), and Kennedy space center. The kids had a blast, Disney’s Magic Kingdom was their favorite, Epcot was our favorite.
We added a few animals to our menagerie this year – and got rid of a few last year. We no longer have any cows, but we did buy a couple goats to try milking next year(this will be Ondrea’s project). We picked up a free miniature horse that Savannah is trying(unsuccessfully so far) to tame. We participated in 4-H this year. 4-H created a very busy season running around the fair-grounds in August. We had a great time seeing Chad’s brother Clyde and his family at Thanksgiving. Their kids are sure cute! We have continued homeschooling, and this has been our best year ever – the kids are doing quite well(most of the time)! We have taken a few field trips with a homeschool co-op this fall, and a couple of our own. We studied Idaho History this fall, so took a trip to the Coeur D’ Alene museum and a trip out to Wallace/Murray to learn some mining history.
Chad had a knee surgery this fall, and is recovering well. He enjoys spending time with his family, writing in our blog(http://bigkiddfamily.blogspot.com), and working around the mini-farm.
Ondrea had two shoulder surgeries this year, and is also recovering well. Chad and Ondrea both had opportunities to serve and take care of one another during this season. Even though recovery had its challenges, it was actually a wonderful time to slow down, be more relational, and learn how to delegate some responsibilities. Ondrea is still homeschooling all of the children and loving it(even though it is challenging). She really enjoys gardening. We had a successful garden this year, in spite of the shoulder and even branched out to some more flower gardening. We are still digging carrots and picking kale out of our garden as well as growing herbs and lettuce inside.
Silas (14) has continued to grow in responsibility, and is doing great in his homeschooling. He is getting straight A’s so far this year(we are trying out a new grading system). Silas raised 2 turkeys this year(we ate one for thanksgiving, it was great) and he and Savannah each raised a lamb(also very yummy). He is continuing to excel at the piano and will be starting an internationally recognized program through Carnegy Hall next month. He likes to garden, play guitar, take care of his goat(Jimmy), and is excitedly looking forward to “the Hobbit” movie this month. Silas did archery in 4-H this year, and likes to golf when he can get time. He and Savannah plan to raise a bottle-calf next year, and sell it the following year for some profit. Silas also likes to cook – we have had many wonderful meals and desserts prepared by him this year. Since he also likes to eat(a lot), this is a logical thing for him to do. “Hmm… I’m hungry, Mom, can I make a batch of cookies this afternoon”? Silas will be taking Driver’s Ed this spring, and will do well I’m sure. He has had a lot of practice driving the riding Lawn-mower around the farm.
Savannah (12) is becoming quite the young woman. She loves working with animals, singing, listening to music, and photography. She took riding lessons this year, and has become quite competent with a horse. She got a Grand champion prize for her Pet Rabbit 4-H project this year at fair. Savannah also has a very unique sense of humor. Savannah is doing well in her music lessons, playing the piano and singing. She has a beautiful voice, is quite talented and loves to perform. She is also doing very well in her school this year and has beautiful handwriting (her favorite subject). She is incredibly talented and creative. She is also a big Lord of the Rings fan and looking forward to The Hobbit
Liliahna (9) loves to help and is quite the encourager and gift giver. She enjoys doing crafts, sewing, cooking, and helping with the little ones. She has a very sweet and caring spirit. Liliahna did “Cake decorating” in 4-H this year, the rest of the family did a good job eating the cakes she made each month. Liliahna has quite the imagination, and she comes up with some great little plays and skits that she and the other children act out for us. She is also doing great in her music lessons and continuing to improve at the Piano. Liliahna has a passion for China and dreams of adopting children from there someday. She is excited to begin learning Chinese next year as well as study about it. She also loves to garden too and talks about starting a plant nursery someday.
Elijah (7) – Is a very passionate and expressive young man. His middle name is “David”, and we see a lot of similarities between him and David in the Bible. He is a worshiper, and very emotional. Elijah likes to play with Legos and likes to play with his “Lord of the Rings” action figures with his brothers and sisters. He is quite acrobatic, so to keep him from bouncing off the walls too much, we put him in a gymnastics program for a few months this fall. We also bought a trampoline this fall, and he has learned quite a few flips and bounces on it. Elijah learned how to ride his bike with no training wheels this summer!
Evangelina (5) is a very interesting and imaginative person. She can sit and play with her toys, read, or color for hours. She loves to play with her ponies, dolls, read books with mom and dad, and also loves to play with her brothers and sisters. She participated in a princess ballet class this summer, and was adorable! She loves to play dress-up, do anything involving imagination, and has quite the sense of humor. She is doing wonderfully in school and would go through weeks of curriculum in a single sitting if she could. She also has learned to read this year.
Peter (3) is very energetic and joyful, truly a “people” person. He likes to interact with people and play with his siblings when he gets the chance. He likes to play with Thomas the train and toy cars. He got glasses at the beginning of the year since he is near-sighted and has one eye that wanders. He called them “Blasses” at first, and the name stuck. “Petesey, where’s your blasses?”. We are patching one eye to attempt to correct the wandering eye now. This doesn’t seem to slow him down much though! Peter is also quite smart, and studies his toys intently to figure out how they work. One morning, as Ondrea was getting him out of his crib, he announced quite passionately, “Mom, there’s a genius in my bed!” He also likes to say, “that’s Brilliant”.
Looking forward to 2013, we plan to do 4-H again. Also, Ondrea got an idea to start a small business, which we are moving forward with a little at a time(Riverbend Spice Company). We have some ideas to write some children’s books(with the children participating in the writing process), and a book about rethinking Church/Life/God from the perspective of God’s Love rather than the perspective of Rules/Religion/Tradition. We have no more surgeries planned(thank God), and we are looking forward to growing in our relationship with God, our family, and the other special people God is bringing into our life. God is so good, he is everything to us, our healer, creator, helper, encourager, forgiver, loving Father, closest friend, Savior, and center of our world!
Love & Blessings,
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